In a culture that often encourages self-promotion and boasting, the Bible calls us to a different way of living—one marked by humility and quiet strength. Boasting may feel satisfying in the moment, but it separates us from God’s grace and distances us from others. In Psalm 57:4, we are reminded not to deal boastfully, as such behavior only serves to elevate ourselves above others, something God does not honor.

Today’s Scripture:
“I said to the boastful, ‘Do not deal boastfully,’ and to the wicked, ‘Do not lift up the horn.’” — Psalm 57:4 (NKJV)

The Problem with Boasting

Boasting stems from a desire to be seen, acknowledged, or even admired by others. It places the focus on our own accomplishments and abilities, rather than giving credit to God for the gifts He has given us. Proverbs 27:2 reminds us, “Let someone else praise you, and not your own mouth; an outsider, and not your own lips.” Boasting also reveals a lack of trust in God’s timing and provision, as we seek to create our own sense of value or success. In doing so, we draw attention away from God’s glory and place it on ourselves.

Humility Over Boasting

Humility is not about denying our strengths, but rather acknowledging the source of those strengths—God. True humility gives God the glory for our abilities and successes, recognizing that without Him, we are nothing. James 4:6 warns us, “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” Those who boast rely on their own efforts for validation, but the humble place their trust in God, knowing that He will exalt them in His perfect time.

How to Resist the Temptation to Boast

1. Celebrate God’s Work in Your Life: Instead of boasting about personal achievements, shift the focus to celebrating what God has done. 1 Corinthians 1:31 encourages us, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.” When you acknowledge God’s hand in your success, you invite others to see His power at work, rather than just your own efforts.
2. Cultivate Gratitude: Gratitude keeps us grounded in humility. By regularly expressing thanks for the blessings in your life, you develop a heart that recognizes everything as a gift from God. This practice reduces the need to boast because you are aware that all good things come from above (James 1:17).
3. Lift Others Up: One of the best ways to counteract boasting is to use your words to encourage and elevate others. Philippians 2:3 tells us, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” When you make it a habit to praise and support others, you take the focus off yourself and create a culture of humility.
4. Trust in God’s Timing: Boasting often stems from impatience or insecurity. We want recognition now, instead of waiting for God’s timing. Proverbs 16:9 says, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” Trusting God means believing that He will provide what we need, when we need it, without the need for self-promotion.

The Beauty of Humility

Humility may not bring immediate recognition, but it brings lasting peace and honor from God. Proverbs 22:4 tells us, “Humility is the fear of the Lord; its wages are riches and honor and life.” While boasting may win temporary applause, it is humility that garners God’s favor. When we walk in humility, we align ourselves with God’s purposes and open the door for Him to work mightily through us.

Conclusion:
Boasting offers a fleeting sense of satisfaction, but it ultimately robs us of the deeper joy that comes from humility. Psalm 57:4 reminds us to refrain from dealing boastfully, choosing instead the quiet strength of humility. By trusting in God’s provision and giving Him the glory for all that we achieve, we honor His name and live in alignment with His will. Let us resist the urge to boast and instead walk humbly, knowing that God will exalt us in due time.

Prayer:
Father, we ask for Your help in resisting the temptation to boast. Teach us to celebrate Your work in our lives and to walk in humility before You. Help us to lift others up and trust in Your perfect timing. May all that we do bring glory to Your name. Amen.